Alice Roosevelt Longworth from Pinterest |
Immediately, I tried to recall a devilish variation on the quote which I thought was from Eleanor Roosevelt. I believe it was something like “If you can’t say something nice, come and sit here by me.” A Google search showed I was close on both counts. The quote is from Alice Roosevelt Longworth, the author, socialite, and eldest daughter of Theodore Roosevelt. There was a site of her quotes. There were actually several versions of the quote that I found. Two were on that site, one was on another, and a fourth on Pinterest (thus making me wonder about the accuracy of quotes on the internet).
- If you haven't got anything nice to say about anybody come sit next to me.
- If you can't think of anything nice to say, come sit here beside me.
- If you can’t say something nice about someone, come and sit right here next to me.
- The above photograph of Alice Roosevelt Longworth holding a pillow with a fourth version.
- Say what you mean, but don’t say it mean.
- If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. ~ Maya Angelou
- Be sure to taste your words before you spit them out.
I am as guilty of the above as anybody, especially the gossip part. I think it is part of human nature. As stated above the gossip can be measured and civil, or it can be malicious and hurtful.
Communication is so critical in everything we do. Be it verbal, social media, or via email. We should all certainly strive to be more tempered. We should indeed taste our words before we speak or type them. For this year, I will add a commitment to speaking and typing in a more polite and civil tone.
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