Tuesday, December 31, 2024

Happy New Year: Michigan 19 - Alabama 13

 


This post, written on December 31st, should be a reflection on this year, 2024, that is coming to a close.  It is not.  Maybe, I will pen a New Year’s post tomorrow morning.

Today?  I wasn’t quite sure.  I started watching the Michigan bowl game and as the game progressed, well, it became my topic.

Michigan is playing Alabama in the ReliaQuest Bowl in Tampa… formerly known as the Hall of Fame Bowl.  While many of the other bowl games not in the National Championship Series have very few fans in the stands, this game looks to be well attended.  Michigan is a 16-point underdog.  This is due to the fact a lot more Michigan stalwarts opted not to play in this game because they had decided to enter the NFL Draft.  This was not as big a problem for Bama, as a most of their players who could have opted out wanted another shot at Michigan after their Rose Bowl loss, 27-20, in overtime on January 1st of this year.

As a result, Michigan was a 16-point underdog.  Just like in the Ohio State game, everyone expected Michigan to lose.  But because of what we did in the Ohio State game, the Michigan fans I know understood the logic of point spread but had more faith in this Michigan. 

While many of the other bowl games not in the National Championship Series have very few fans in the stands, this game was very well attended by the faithful fans of each school.

Alabama took the opening kickoff, got a couple of first downs.  Then they went for it on 4th down and Michigan stopped them and took over on downs.  Michigan drove down to the Alabama 27 and kicked a field goal to take a 3-0 lead.  As soon as they kicked the field goal, a rainstorm started.  During that rain and eventual torrential downpour, Alabama fumbled and Michigan got a another field goal.  Michigan intercepted Alabama and scored a touchdown.  Michigan recovered another fumble and got another first down.  In the rain the Alabama backs and ends were slipping and falling when they made their cuts.  At the end of the 1st quarter, Michigan had 2 first downs, 43 total yards of total offense.  Alabama has 2 first downs and -2 yards of total offense.  The score was Michigan 16, Alabama 0.

The 2nd quarter was different.  The rain stopped.  Alabama stopped turning the ball over and regained their footing.  The Michigan offense was stymied by the Alabama defense.  Reminiscent of the Michigan - Ohio State game, the Alabama offense showed their explosiveness with 6 minutes left in the quarter.  Starting at their own 29, they scored a touchdown in just four plays that included a run of 28 yards and a 25-yard touchdown pass.  Michigan took the ball, got two first downs, and then had to punt it away.  Michigan downed the punt on the Alabama 4-yard line with only 58 seconds left in the half.  With back-to-back plays, Alabama quarterback Jalen Milroe ran for 41 yards and then passed for 40.  Alabama was first and goal at the 6-yard line with less than 20 seconds on the clock.  Michigan’s defense pressured them into three incomplete passes and held them to a field goal.  The score at halftime:  16-10.

The third quarter of the Michigan – Alabama was scoreless.  Both defenses played, dug in and played very tough.  Again, it was reminiscent of the Ohio State game.

The fourth quarter of the ReliaQuest Bowl was a nail biter.  The quarter opened with Michigan having the ball.  Michigan punted to Alabama who drove to the Michigan 36  and turned It over on downs for a second time.  Michigan took over and ran the ball on eight plays down to the Alabama 19 where they kicked a field goal.   With a score of 19-10 and 7:21 left on the clock, Alabama needed to score twice to win.  They began their next drive they drove 47 yards in eight plays to the Michigan 33 where they kicked a 51-yard field goal to make it a 19-13 game.  Michigan then got a first down and then had to punt.  A return of 38 yards put Alabama on their own 44 with 2:18 left in the game.  In six plays, Alabama was 1st and 10 at the Michigan 15 with about 1 minute left in the game.  The Michigan defense dug and after forcing four incomplete passes Michigan took over on downs for a third time in this game.  As Alabama was out of time outs, Michigan took a knee on two snaps and ended the game.

As noted above, this game was very reminiscent of the Michigan – Ohio State game just a month ago.  Michigan controlled the time of possession, ran the ball, and kept Alabama’s explosive offense off the field.  When that offense was on the field, Michigan’s defense held them to 13 points.  We made them play our game.

We beat Alabama twice this year.  We beat them on January 1, 2024 in the Rose Bowl and again today, December 31, 2024, in the ReliaQuest Bowl.  We are the only team to beat Alabama twice in one year.  We lead the series with them 4-3.

This Michigan team did not look good earlier in this season.  They lost to Texas, Washington, Oregon, Illinois, and Indiana.  Before the Northwestern game, it was not clear if we would be bowl eligible.  Then we ran the table beating NW, Ohio State, and, today, Alabama.  As the year progressed, the offensive line started to gel.  We settled on Davis Warren as quarterback who went from worrisome to a very gutsy OK.  As the offense started to eat up the clock, the defense was fresher for the whole and realized their potential.  We ended up the season as a pretty good football team. 

Things are looking pretty good for Michigan Football in 2025.  Go Blue.

Happy New Year!  A prosperous, healthy, and happy 2025 to one and all.



Monday, December 30, 2024

Ouds, Guitars, Horses, and Camels

 


The older I get the more I like cowboy movies.  I first noticed and wrote about this trend in 2011:  Old Westerns.

In some of the lighter movies I have watched, I noticed that several of them have the same flaw/dichotomy.  A few drifters or cowboys traveling by horseback make camp and under the starry night in the glow of the campfire, one of the cowboys is playing the guitar and singing for the others.  The flaw?  The dilemma?  Where the heck did the guitar come from?  This guy is traversing the prairie or high desert on horseback in one scene with no guitar visible on any the horses.  The next minute, after dinner one suddenly appears and disappears again when they hit the trail again the next morning.  In some movies, where the cowboys are driving cattle and there is a chuck wagon as part of the crew, I can see where a guitar could make the trip with the pots, pans, and provisions.  


Where did the guitar come from?  The same place the change of clothes come from which I am guessing is the script.  How much stuff can one cowpoke tote along one horse?  The clear answer is not much.  After a bed roll, some food, guns, ammo, maybe a coat… there is no room for a guitar.  I could see a harmonica but not a guitar.  Plus, trail dust, the hot sun and cold nights, rain and snow, and the general jostling about associated with riding horses is not the best environment for a guitar.  I would imagine they would warp, crack, and break quite often. 

 


No matter if it is rooted in reality or Hollywood, the guitar playing cowboy atop a horse is an icon.  Does the same apply to other cultures and eras?  Troubadours certainly travelled with a lyre, fiddle, flute, or lute like instrument.  They might travel by horseback where the main purpose was music not herding cattle, robbing trains, or fighting Indians.  Again, this has been influenced by Hollywood as well.  Think of the Will Scarlett character in Robin Hood (1938) toting a lute like thing around when not engaged in battle.

Does it apply to the Middle East?  Is there any lore, legend, or history of oud players on horse or camelback?  There is none that I know but then I am not well-versed in the films of the region.  If guitars don’t travel well on horseback, the oud being more delicate would be a bigger challenge.  In times of yore, it probably was not the chosen instrument of troubadours who travelled on foot or by donkey, horse, or camel.

I have come acress two photos of Armenians on horseback holding ouds.  One was Lilit Karapetyan (1963-2006) considered the first female oud player in Armenia SSR.  There is a nice biography of her in January 26, 2022 article in The Armenian Weekly:  Armenian Women Artists.  I could only find two clips of her playing.  Both are on Instagram.  These clips are from a concert at Komitas State Conservatory of Yerevan, 1992. The concert was presented in memory of her teacher, Karapet Aristakesyan.  She played classical music in these clips.  The notes in one of the posts claims that the full concert is on YouTube, but I could not find it.  I would love the story of how she came to take that photo with her oud on horseback.


Lastly is my favorite photo. Richard Boyajian uses this very cool photo of him on horseback taken in Montana in 2011 as his Facebook profile photo.  While we are Facebook friends, I do not believe I have ever met him nor have I heard him play the oud.  Why is this my favorite photo?  I am not really sure.  I think I like it because it is cleary Armenian and clearly with an oud, but it is also a cowboy style photo at the same time. 

 


 

Sunday, December 29, 2024

Lest We get to full of Our Motivated Selves

 


Yesterday’s post was the nth addressing, perhaps rehashing is a better word, of motivational and inspirational quotes.  As I wrote, this is an area of fascination for me.  Another way to explain it could be an obsession.  Nah, I would never dedicate the amount of time to this to be anywhere close to obsessive about it.

It is clear that motivational quotes, solely, are not the primary driver of change in lifestyle or other self-improvements.  If they were, the Nike adage of ‘Just Do It’ would be all anyone would need.  Heck, we would be a world of perfect humans if that were the case.  The only thing for certain is that Nike sold a lot of shoes and other swoosh adorned clothes and accessories with this tagline.

Earlier this year, in one of those ‘where did the time go’ scrolling through reels sessions, I came across a delightful one:  Demotivational quotes for people who hate inspirational quotes.  I was laughing out loud.  I sent the link to others who would find it just as hilarious.  Here are the demotivational quotes in this reel:

  • Smile every day…  as a daily reminder that your life is still a joke.
  • Do something nice for someone today.  Leave them alone.  Life is hard enough without your bullshit.
  • Don’t let anyone tell you what you can’t do.  That’s a job for your insecurities.
  • There’s no limit of what you can be… if you lie to yourself.
  • Meditate every day… so you can become an even better selfish bastard.
  • It gets better… for a minute or so every now and then.

These are all brilliant and funny.  It is a bucket splash of cold water to anyone worried about their ability to get and stay motivated.  In making light of it all, they remind us not to be too hard on ourselves if the progress is not clipping along as briskly as we might want.

These reels and others come from a website - Sad and Useless Humor:  The most depressive humor site on the internet.  Their About tab says, “SadAndUseless.com was created in 2009 as a sad attempt at humor. And to this day it still is the same old useless site it was meant to be.”  The website is full of content of various attempts at sad and useless humor.  Examples include:

The demotivational series of videos and reels are all wonderful.  Many of the other posts are more sad and useless than actually humorous.  Sure, there were some amusing chuckles here and there.  But I suppose the website is true to its name.  With a name like Sad and Useless Humor, they can post just about anything they want (kind of like this blog when I am in my ‘blog about nothing’ mood).

It was easier to find the demotivational videos and short on their YouTube Channel than on their website.  They also have 2025 Horoscopes on the channel as well.  Being a Cancer, my horoscope was:

Try not to take this personally but you will continue to be an insufferable prick in 2025.  Thinking that you know everything better than everyone doesn’t make you smart or interesting.  It just makes you delusional and unlikeable.  You will never learn to shut up, will you?  Not in 2025, not in 2026.  Not ever.

So, I got this going for me…

Here are some more demotivational quotes:

  • If at first, you don’t succeed… it’s probably never going to happen.
  • If you never believe in yourself… you will never let yourself down.
  • True love is when two people… lower their standards just the right amount.
  • If you’ll keep following your dreams… they’re going to file a restraining order.
  • Before you love someone else, you have to learn to love yourself… so there’s no chance of that happening.
  • The best things in life… are actually really expensive.
  • Don’t hate someone for what they look like on the outside… hate them for what a piece of shit they are on the inside.
  • Enjoy the good times… because some terrible is probably about to happen.
  • Life is hard… but at least it’s also long and boring. 
  • One of the best things you can do in life… is shut the hell up occasionally.
  • It’s a beautiful day… to eat leftovers over the trashcan like a damn racoon.

Let me close with the same closing I used in my January 18, 2018 post:  Resolution Update.  It kind of fits here. 

I have often downplayed the Nike slogan. But, maybe it is right. In a 2011 movie, Friends with Benefits, Woody Harrelson played Justin Timberlakes boss. At one point near the end, the Woody character gave the following little sermon:

Hey, everybody wants a short cut in life.  My guide book is very simple:  You wanna lose weight? Stop eating, fatty!  You wanna make money?  Work your ass off, lazy!You wanna be happy?  Find someone you like and never let him go. Or her

Or as Yoda said, “Do or do not. There is no try.”  So I should lace-up my physical and mental Nike's and Just Do It.

Saturday, December 28, 2024

Motivational Quotes Revisited… Yet Again

 

Pythagoras and Mae West

Any reader of this blog knows that I am prone to use quotes to emphasize points and, more so, when I am writing about motivation and self-improvement.  It might be a genetic thing.  My great Uncle Rouben Gavoor used to collect such quotes and even had a column in The Armenian Weekly, As They Saw It, in which he would share the quotes he had collected.

I wish I had asked him about this and the root of his fascination with quotes, but my interest in such developed after he passed away.  Thus, I can only speak for myself.  Where Uncle Rouben favored quotes by great statesmen and leaders of movements and countries.  My interest is more personal.  I am interested in self-improvement and continuous improvement.  Being an advocate of continuous improvement in the workplace for my entire career, it is clear that motivation is a necessary part.  It is a most necessary part at the beginning when an organization is taking its first tenuous steps in the transformation of the culture.  It is also clear that it is not sufficient, motivation is much more helpful in the beginning than in the long haul. 

If we liken this to the field of economics where that discipline is divided into macro and microeconomics.  Uncle Rouben’s was interested in quotations in the macro sense:  the world and nations.  My interest in both economics and quotations is definitely micro:  firms, households, and individuals.  My interest in quotes attributed to the famous, near famous, and the relatively unknown have become more and more micro over time.  That is simply I am at the me, myself, and I level i.e. self-improvement.  I also believe I am better at helping organizations change and improve, rather than myself. 

So, I am looking for the right motivational quotes to help myself get going and improve just about everything I do.  And to boot, I have the classic cognitive bias of believing that once found, the right motivational quote will in the flip of a switch place me immediately on the right path and keep me from ever wavering.  Heck, I should be collecting quotes on folly and delusion (insert a rolling on the floor laughing emoji here).

Like most interests, avocations, and hobbies, the internet, specifically Google and now AI, has enabled and accelerated my fascination with motivational quotes beyond anything I would have done on my own.  Websites like BrainyQuotes, A-Z Quotes and others have been amazingly helpful.  Lately, there are reels galore that collect and post the motivational wisdom of the ages with video, music, and AI narration that intensify the impact of the quotes even more.  Here is an example of quotes from one such reel I ran across in September.  Sadly, I did not copy the URL for it.  There are eight quotes though none of the quotes were attributed to who said or wrote them.  Google AI helped with the attributions:

  1. Worrying is like paying a debt you don’t owe ~ Mark Twain
  2. Almost nothing material is needed for a happy life for he who understood existence. ~ Marcus Aurelius
  3. We suffer more in our imagination than in reality. ~ Seneca
  4. No man is free that cannot control himself. ~ Pythagoras
  5. True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future.  ~ Seneca.
  6. It may seem difficult at first, but all things are difficult at first. ~ Miyamoto Musashi
  7. No amount of anxiety makes any difference to anything that is going to happen. ~ Alan Watts
  8. Everyone must choose one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. ~ Jim Rohn

This morning, I saw this reel from The Wise Said - 9 of the smartest quotes ever said:

  1. Care what other people think, and you will always be their prisoner. ~ Lao Tzu
  2. It is never too late to be what you might have been. ~ George Eliot
  3. Our life is what our thoughts make it. ~ Marcus Aurelius
  4. Thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge. ~ Carl Jung
  5. We suffer more in our imagination than in reality. ~ Seneca
  6. A fool is known by speech and a wise man by silence. ~ Pythagoras
  7. If you are the smartest person in the room, then you are in the wrong room. ~ Confucius
  8. The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear. ~ Rumi
  9. You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. ~ Mae West

Many of these are very good.  I like the quotes from Seneca, Pythagoras, Marcus Aurelius, Lao Tzu, and Mark Twain.  I wonder how Mae West made the list with this beautiful quote that can be interpreted both from a stoic and a libertine perspective. 

Lastly Jim Rohn and Miyamoto Musashi, acknowledge the reality of what I called the ‘long haul’ in any change process .  The pain and difficulty they speak of it the effort to stay the course until the desired goal or becomes a routine modus operandi displacing the old… the pain of discipline versus the pain of regret… the trade-off of what you want right now for what you want long term.  This is and has been my lifelong challenge. Per George Eliot, it is never too late to change.

Wednesday, December 25, 2024

Christmas 2024: A Somber Christmas

 

Not this year..


It is Christmas morning.  It has been my recent habit to rise early and write a reflection on the joy of this holiday and this season.  I focus on family and friends and the glow of Christmas as we celebrate it in the Northern climes. 

Not this year.

Our house is usually fully decorated, inside and out.  We have a minimum of three trees and have had as many as five.  My wife’s design and efforts in this regard are nonpareil.  The photos I have included in my Christmas posts of yore easily support my claim that our home, decorated for Christmas, could have been featured in a magazine spread on Christmas décor festivities.  I have to reemphasize that my wife, in this regard, is the artist and our home is her canvas. 

But not this year. 

This year our Christmas décor is one Christmas wreath on the front door.

Christmas Eve is usually a warm and festive gathering at our home.  The gatherings range from 30 to 50 family and friends.  We have our priest bless the house in the centuries old Armenian tradition.  We feast on sumptuous hors d'oeuvres, dishes, and desserts in the grand Armenian American tradition.  At the end of the evening, we gather around the piano to sing carols and have someone read The Night Before Christmas. 

But not this year. 

This year there were just four of us dining on Christmas at a fine local restaurant.

What is the reason for this much more somber Christmas?

We are mourning for my wife’s mother, Mary, who passed away on December 10 peacefully after a beautiful life of 96 years.  Here is her obituary.

In 2010, when my father-in-law, Harold, my uncle Ozzie, and my aunt Seeran passed away.  As they passed in June and July, we were able to celebrate Christmas five months later. 

But not this year. 

Fifteen days were clearly not enough for us.  We were not able to do anything more than we did. 

When any family member passes, there is always a hole in our hearts.  We miss them even more at holidays, birthdays, weddings, baptisms, and graduations.  After the period of mourning, the grief subsides though the hole remains, but at these very gatherings we remember them still.  We remember them with fondness.  We talk about how they would so enjoy being with us for whatever occasion we are gathered.

Next year, Christmas will hopefully be the norm.  It should be more what we are used to and have come to expect.  My mother-in-law will be with us for sure.  She will be in our hearts and minds, we will reflect on our departed matriarch and just how she loved Christmas and the traditions she helped forge that will, hopefully, last for generations.  She set the tone for this holiday for our family.  She created indelible memories for all of us especially our children.  My wife and daughter have taken the torch from this grand lady and carry it forth proudly and adding to what was already grand.

While mom has passed, there is no doubt her spirit and example will be us forever.  That spirit and example will shine brightly… but certainly it will be brightest at Christmastime.

Merry Christmas to you and yours.

Monday, December 23, 2024

A Post Inspired by my Talented Friend Abdo

 


 On November 15, 2024, a friend, Abdo Timejardine-Zomeño, I know from the University of Chicago Middle Eastern Music Ensemble posted something that caught my eye and piqued my interest.  This is the second time a posting from Abdo prompted a blog post from me.  The first was Navigating the Seas of Stress and Struggle.

Abdo is a very thoughtful, bright, and talented college student.  He is a senior at the University of Illinois – Chicago.  He will be graduating with a double major:  a Bachelor of Science in Mechanical Engineering and a Bachelor of Music in Clarinet Performance.  Abdo is clearly blessed with innate right-brain and left-brain aptitudes and has dedicated his undergraduate education to exploring and nurturing both.  Abdo is a very talented musician and has taken up conducting and composing as well.  He posts a lot about the various music ensembles he plays with and the conferences he attends.  Abdo had a successful engineering internship this summer in Wisconsin that he enjoyed and thrived at.  www.abtizomusic.com is his music website.

So, what was his post about on the ides of November?  Here is the excerpt of a longer post:

Today's been one of those days where I have underlying anxiety around graduating. I feel like at no point throughout any of my education, high school included, was I ever advised correctly or given the tools needed to be successful. I had to figure much of this out on my own. I don't believe in blaming others for my own shortcomings, but how are you supposed to ask the right questions when you aren't even provided the right information to begin with?

Anyway, all of this to say. I believe in education. We never stop learning. I don't expect it to get any easier. Especially since I am considering graduate school much later on. I just hope when that stage arrives, it won't feel like I'm trying to navigate an empty rainforest at night with just a pocketknife and the last remaining batteries for my flashlight.

 Here is my comment on his post:

Abdo. I kinda believe figuring it out on your own is a critical part of the journey. It helps define you. There are plenty of people giving advice, which to some extent is nothing more than what worked for them. This can be helpful but only if it resonates with you.

Who’s doing what you are doing in terms of music and engineering and wanting to explore photography and who knows what else.

You’re kind of a renaissance man. Embrace it but know there only a select few that can guide you and their guidance is based on their own journey.

Go forth and be amazing

 My fifteen-year teaching career in my 'so called' retirement has taught me a few things.  First, an important and rarely discussed part of a college education is for students to learn time and task management.  There are countless methods and processes for time and task management.  The methods are available in innumerable books and videos and supported by any variety of software applications and paper planning calendars.  Which one is the best?  The answer is simple; the one that works best for you.  In college, students should find the method that works for them. Abdo is right about one thing.  We provide some of the best software tools but never provide any instruction about how to use them and the plusses and minuses of each.  in my experience, we let the students fend for themselves to determine how to manage task and time.  There is wide variation in how good students are at doing this.

Secondly, all students need mentors.  These are not people telling young folks what to do but are more so sounding boards who listen well before responding.  A good mentor also provides an example of what to do rather than a sermon on what to do.  Students whose parents went to college have an advantage in this regard though not all such students take advantage of this.  Mentors can be anyone from other students, to professors, to summer job supervisors, to friends of the family.  Just like in the case of time and task management, there is no guidebook for the networking skills to meet new people who may become acquaintances a few of whom might develop into mentors.  Again, students are on their own to develop and refine these skills. 

Lastly, in the case of Abdo.  Who is in a position to advise and mentor a music and engineering double major on how to navigate the beautiful career choices he is facing.  There are certainly those that can provide guidance in one or the other disciplines, but who can help him decide which fork in the road to take?  Robert Frost talked about exactly this in The Road Not Taken but offers nothing to someone like Abdo who has come to a fork in the road in “an empty rainforest at night with just a pocketknife and the last remaining batteries for my flashlight.”  As I said in my comment on his Facebook post: You're a renaissance man.  Embrace it but know there only a select few that can guide you... Go forth and be amazing

The Road Not Taken
By Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim.
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

The Poetry Foundation

Saturday, December 21, 2024

First Snow

 


We had our first snow overnight.  There has always been something special about the first snow.  With the barren landscape muted in brownish grays after the green summer and colorful falling of the leaves, the first snow brightens everything with a pristine white blanket.  With global warming and less snows that melt off quickly, any snow during these warmer winters is almost as special as the first snow.  There is a possibility we may have a white Christmas.

I have to admit, my excitement and glee has not changed at all over time.  I have the same fascination and wonderment since childhood.  I don’t see that ever changing.  I send my grandkids short videos of our comings and goings.  A disproportionate number of those videos are during or just after snowstorms. 

I had an appointment this morning and left the house at 7:15.  The roads were already clean and the traffic was light.  As it was a wet snow, they snow stuck to the branches of the trees making for a most pleasant drive in this first snow.

Winters can be dreary.  The days are short and as already noted the landscape is drab.  Many of you who do not like the cold and snow of winter will take exception when I say that snow, to me, is magical.  It brightens the world, makes the landscape clean, brings a calm and quiet to the world.  It is not me, this defines part of the Christmas mystique in the northern climes.  Snowy landscapes adorn Christmas movies and Christmas cards.

Here are some reflections of other writers some more notable than others:  

I wonder if the snow loves the trees and fields, that it kisses them so gently? And then it covers them up snug, you know, with a white quilt; and perhaps it says, ‘go to sleep, darlings, till the summer comes again. ~ Lewis Caroll

 

Snow falling soundlessly in the middle of the night will always fill my heart with sweet clarity.” ~ Novala Takemoto

 

There’s just something beautiful about walking in snow that nobody else has walked on. It makes you believe you’re special. ~ Carol Rifka Brunt

 

It is the life of the crystal, the architect of the flake, the fire of the frost, the soul of the sunbeam. This crisp winter air is full of it. ~ John Burroughs

 

Kindness is like snow—it beautifies everything it covers. ~ Kahlil Gibran

 

Snow provokes responses that reach right back to childhood. ~ Andy Goldsworthy

 

The snow doesn’t give a soft white damn whom it touches.” ~ e.e. cummings

 

Silently, like thoughts that come and go, the snowflakes fall, each one a gem. ~ William Hamilton Gibson

 

Thank goodness for the first snow. It was a reminder–no matter how old you became and how much you’d seen–things could still be new if you were willing to believe they still mattered. ~ Candace Bushnell

 

The Snow Did Not Even Whisper Its Way To Earth, But Seemed To Salt The Night With Silence. ~ Dean Koontz

 

Despite all I have seen and experienced, I still get the same simple thrill out of glimpsing a tiny patch of snow. ~ Edmund Hillary

 

The First Fall Of Snow Is Not Only An Event But It Is A Magical Event. You Go To Bed In One Kind Of World And Wake Up To Find Yourself In Another Quite Different, And If This Is Not Enchantment, Where Is It To Be Found? ~ J. B. Priestley

 

Snow is…a beautiful reminder of life and all its quirks. It makes me pause. Think. Stay still. Even my mind takes the hint. It makes me feel giddy. Like a kid.” ~ R.B. O’Brien

 

It takes a snowflake two hours to fall from cloud to earth. Can’t you just see its slow, peaceful descent? ~ Amy Krouse Rosenthal

 

Winter forms our character and brings out our best. ~ Tom Allen

 

Snow is falling outside and all is peaceful and still. In such moments it is possible to believe that the world could still be good. ~ Richard Paul Evans

 

I Know A Little More How Much A Simple Thing Like A Snowfall Can Mean To A Person. ~ Sylvia Plath

All quotes from purewow.com.

 



Tuesday, December 17, 2024

Cool regional columns from the 1950s

 Note:  This was originally published in The Armenian Weekly.

There was a time when there were no cell phones, internet or social media, which make communication so easy today. There were telephones (we call them landlines today), and each house had one phone number and one phone that everyone used. Long distance calls were a luxury most folks only used when really good or really bad news had to be communicated, and even then, the calls were brief.

This era began around the 1930s and 40s when most people got their first home telephones. It ended between 2004, when Facebook launched, and 2007, which marked the debut of the first iPhone. Interpersonal communication also took a leap forward after 1984 when the U.S. deregulated phone services. Soon after, service providers started offering unlimited long distance service.

Before then, how did people know when friends and acquaintances had weddings, births, graduations and deaths in their family? They sent letters and telegrams and posted such news in newspapers for their communities. The Hairenik Weekly served that role for its subscribers from its founding and continued to do so when it was renamed The Armenian Weekly. The first generation of Armenians born in this country started to graduate from high school and college, get married and have children during the first 25 years of The Hairenik Weekly

With the founding of the AYF, Armenian youth got to be lifelong friends with Armenians across the country. They would meet and bond at national events like the annual convention and AYF Olympics and various regional events like AYF Bowling. This generation wanted to keep in touch and stay aware of the comings and goings of their friends and acquaintances. After graduating from high school and college, they began writing for the Weekly and were given columns to report on local events of note. The heyday of this phenomenon seems to have been the 1950s. 

The longest-running of these columns were not written by AYFers but set the standard for all that followed. One was called “The Bostonian: Viewing the Hub of the Universe.” It is not clear who wrote this column as it had no byline. Perhaps it was the long-serving Weekly editor James Mandalian or his successor James Tashjian. Another was “This and That from New York” by Levon Keshishian. I believe Keshishian’s column, spanning from the 1940s to at least the 1970s, had the longest run of any column in the Weekly’s history. The first two regional columns covered news from the two most vibrant centers of Armenian life at the time. Let’s look at some of these columns from five issues from the years 1954-56.

“As the nation goes, so does Maine,” written by Anthony Mezoian, was published in the September 30, 1955 issue of the Weekly. There were Armenian communities in Maine and New Hampshire, a part of our history that is barely known or remembered these days. The first paragraph announced the marriage of my father’s first cousin. Here are two excerpts: 

Pauline Helenian [actually Kelenian] of Rye, New Hampshire and Airman Martin Quirk were recently married. He is stationed at Lockbourne Air Base, Columbus, Ohio… Ray and Alice Mougalian recently entertained the famed movie stars Betty [Bette] Davis and her husband Gary Merrill. Twelve attended the cocktail party and all Armenian “feed” which consisted of everything from shish-kebab to bourmah.

I would have loved to see a quote from Bette Davis and a group photo of this event, but none of the columns I read included photos.

From the Midwest, there was a column “On Wisconsin,” by Var Bagdasarian, which opened with the famed Drum Corp from Racine.

Imagine going to a bake sale and being able to buy paghlava, kata, lahmahjou and all the other wonderful Armenian delicacies. That is just what happened at the Gas and Electric Co., of Racine on Friday, August 14. The Drum Corps decided to repeat the Bake Sale idea, which was such a tremendous success, last year. They were equally fortunate this time too.  The people just “ate it up.” The food was donated by the Drum Corps parents and friends to help finance the trip to Washington D.C. Pretty nice of those women, wouldn’t you say — to take time out of their household duties for this project?  The proceeds were all clear profit, and must have been high because our Corps DID go to the Olympics. Oh, what a time they had, too. Hope you got to see them. 

It would be great if someone would write the story of the Racine Drum Corps. Maybe there already is one in the archives just waiting to be rediscovered.

Next up is the “West Coast Wire” by none other than Richard Hovannisian. While this was before he became an international spokesman for Armenians, we see a hint of what was to come from this great Armenian.

We had the great honor and privilege of visiting Unger Simon Vratzian for a couple of hours while he was in San Francisco visiting at the Karageozian home. It is difficult to explain the awe and pride of being in the presence of such a great man — a man who was an integral part of the Independent Armenian Republic serving as prime-minister. He was instrumental in the February 18 revolt against communism. His wealth of knowledge and wisdom can be found in no history book. He lives with the living hope and determination that Armenia will again be free. It is the duty of every Armenian youth to strive to make this living hope a living realization.

The same words could be used to describe Professor Hovannisian. He most definitely was a “wealth of knowledge and wisdom” and actually got to see a free and independent Armenia.

The next two columns are related. First, from “The Bostonian”: 

Had the distinct pleasure of meeting Mr. and Mrs. Mitchell and Rose Kehetian, and Mitch’s dad Kaspar, during their recent visit to Boston, and it was most refreshing to chat with such a wonderful family group devoted so thoroughly to the cause of Armenian liberation. Though they have come through a period in which dear members of their families have passed away, the closely-knit three have retained their natural ebullience. 

This same issue of the Weekly contained Mitchell Kehetian’s column, “Motor City News.” Kehetian had an illustrious career in Detroit. He was a reporter for the Detroit Times when he wrote this column for the Weekly then an editor at the Macomb Daily.

Mr. and Mrs. Zakar Manoogian announced the marriage of their daughter, Stella, to Jack Tian, son of Mrs. Anoosh Tufenkjian. The ceremony, performed by the Rev. S. Papakhian, took place at the St. Sarkis Armenian Apostolic Church, after which a reception was held. Stella is an active member of the Detroit Moorad-Zavarian chapter. The couple honeymooned by taking a tour through Michigan. The newlyweds are making their home at 4055 Ida., Detroit.

It is not unusual that Kehetian wrote one column and was mentioned in another. As another point of connectivity, Ned Apigian just penned a wonderful article about Jack (Hagop) Tian and his brother Haigus, “A story of two Detroit brothers in war,” published on June 29, 2024.

We go back to the East Coast for “The Philadelphia Story” by Iris Pilbosian. In this column, she shares this tidbit about Dick Keshgegian, who was a pillar of the Philadelphia community. 

A hearty hello and welcome home to Dickie Keshgegian, just recently discharged by Uncle Sam, after spending many months in Korea. We can’t help mentioning that beautiful, new Oldsmobile, a “small” gift from mom and dad Keshgegian. Seriously, though, Dick, the Phila. “Sebouh” chapter extends a sincere “Welcome Home” to one of its favorite members.

The last stop in this September 30, 1954 issue of the Weekly is Washington, D.C. Anne Atanosian wrote this “DC Dateline” column about Dr. Sarkis Balassanian. He was from Argentina and attended the World Congress of Cardiologists in the nation’s capital on September 10-19, 1954. In describing Dr. Balassanian’s path to becoming an eminent cardiologist, she spoke to the spirit of the survivor generation and their children.

Reaching Argentina as a young boy with his parents, young Sarkis worked very hard to achieve his education, an education which found his yearnings leaning toward medicine. As any one of us who have listened to the stories of the early struggles of our refugee parents, we can appreciate that it is only through the most diligent kind of self deprivation that any progress can be made in a strange land. But this progress was made through perseverance which is so common a trait among our people.

There were more examples of local reporting in the December 29, 1955 Hairenik Weekly, including two columns from Chicago. The first was the “Windy City Wire” by Diane Nazarian.  Here are three updates from her column.

On November 25 little Becky Jan Sahagian celebrated her first birthday. Becky is the lovely daughter of John and Lucille Sahagian.

On December 5 the Museum of Science and Industry presented a program featuring the Armenian Christmas celebration. AYFers in the presentation were June Der Matoian, Charles Serejian, Violet Allikian, and Ara Bedrosian.

December 10 was the day of our colossal Hye Bar at the Sheridan Plaza Hotel. The Arziv [Ardziv] Band from Detroit was at its best and the crowd loved them!  Everyone danced and had a wonderful time until the wee hours.

My connections to people mentioned in these articles continue to surprise me, even though I know our community is small and tight knit. We got to know John and Lucille in 1990, the year we relocated to Connecticut. They lived in Fairfield, and we all were members of the Armenian Church of the Holy Ascension in Trumbull. I also grew up listening to the Ardziv Band. When I began to play, we always invited Simon Javizian, the leader of Ardziv, to join us on clarinet and sing a song or two. One of my ouds used to belong to their talented oud player, Harry Bakaian.  You can hear him playing it at the beginning of Kaleh Kaleh from their Traveling for Kef album.

Hazel Tatson in “The Voice of the Chicago” reported on the Chicago chapter wanting to start a local newspaper:

The Ararat AYF Chapter, recognizing this need, set forth to work out plans for organizing a paper that would fill the requirements of a small Armenian community. The AYF felt that such a newspaper would not only serve as a source of news, but it would better the youth and the parental organizations, it would bring the voice of the church closer to the community, and mainly it would support, preserve, and maintain the Armenian culture.

What a wonderful and noble idea. I wonder if the paper ever came to fruition. It would be interesting to review a few copies.

Of course, there was a column from Providence. The “Providence Press” was written by Rosalie Kolligian. She announced the birth of her nephew in this particular column:

Mr. and Mrs. John Varadian of Providence are proud parents of a new baby, their second son. He was born on December 9, 1955. Mrs. Varadian is the former Sylvia Kolligian of Providence. Congratulations Sis and Jay.

The name of the newborn was not mentioned in the article. I asked Mike Varadian, who related that it was his cousin Stephen Jay. Sadly, Stephan passed away on September 20, 2000, a few months shy of his 50th birthday. He had battled brain cancer for 22 months. His obituary was in the October 7, 2000 Armenian Weekly.

There were three examples in the September 29, 1955 Weekly of regional columns. Levon Keshishian’s “This and That from New York” talked about the passing of two noted Armenians:  Dr. K. Seropian in New York and Dicran Bagdassarian in Tehran. Keshishian wrote about how he and his friend Dr. Seropian would discuss “Armenian politics, literature and international affairs” as well as their shared passion for stamp collecting. He had this to say about Bagdassarian: 

I had read his articles and books and had become an admirer of this revolutionary of this generation. He was a sincere man and very impressive. There are men you admire before you see them. Many disappoint you when you meet them, somehow you say to yourself, “I wish I had not come to know the man.” Dicran Bagdassarian was not of these, you liked him more. 

There were also two columns from Wisconsin in the 1950s. The second of these was “Racine News” by Corrine DerGarabedian. In one column was this tidbit:

At a recent Chicago meeting for members, two from Chicago and two from Racine volunteered to go to Waukegan and see how their chapter is getting along. The Racine representatives, Mary Madasian and Sonia Gelenian, reported that everything is running smoothly. We wish the Waukegan chapter all the luck in the future.

On the other side of the state of New York was Alice Arutunjian who wrote a column, “News and Views From Niagara Falls.” 

I am proud to announce that young Ned Apigian, 17, a Shant Committee member was awarded a $20 honorable mention award for a drawing in the mechanical drawing division in the Ford Motor Co’s. ninth annual industrial arts awards competition. Ned is working this summer and will start his last year at the Trott Vocational School in Niagara Falls.

We now have a beautiful bow of connections between the “The Bostonian” mentioning Mitchell Kehetian, Mitchell Kehetian’s “Motor City News” mentioning Jack Tian, Ned Apigian’s recent article about Jack Tian and this mention of Ned in the “News and Views From Niagara Falls.” 

Lastly, in the May 10, 1955 Weekly, I came across “Nutmeg Newsettes: Connecticut Capers” by Mary Kaprealian in which she mourns the loss of a beloved community member, presumably a genocide survivor.

It is with a heart full of sorrow that we start this report on activities and events in Connecticut. During the interim between this and our first column, the Hartford-New Britain area suffered a tragic loss at the sudden death of Mrs. Rose (Kalajian) Boornazian on April 23 at the age of 52. Mrs. Boornazian passed away suddenly as a result of a cerebral hemorrhage, as closely as we can ascertain. Her loss is mourned… not only by her family… but by both communities, as well. Our own friendship with her stems from the writer’s early childhood.

It would take an issue-by-issue investigation to learn when these columns began and ended and how frequently they ran. Clearly, they were popular in the 1950s. The artwork and masthead for each of these columns were unique. Some were clearly hand drawn and all of them used fonts we don’t see much of these days. These columns were, from my perspective, the social media of that era and another example of the treasure trove that is the Hairenik Archives.